November 25, 2020

Narcissists love to control you. One way they do this is by gaslighting. This causes you to doubt your: Perceptions Thoughts Beliefs Relationships Even your actions How? By telling you things that aren’t true. Here are some examples: “I never said that.” “I didn’t mean anything by it.” “You must be mistaken.” “Everyone else agrees

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November 23, 2020

There are many reasons women stay with a narcissist. Familiarity. Fear. Resignation. Innocence… No matter the reason for staying, at some point they realize it’s toxic to them. They start to think about getting out. I call that the “light bulb moment.” It’s when they get clarity; they see he will never change. If they’ve

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November 22, 2020

Most partners of narcissists are caring people. And that’s a good thing… until it isn’t. What I mean is that being open-hearted is the sign of a good person. But if they are too open, it can come back on them. One of the problems is they feel guilty about asking for anything. They don’t

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November 18, 2020

When someone is in a narcissistic relationship, they can get stuck in the “False Hope Trap.” What does this mean? The person subject to the narcissist tends to hope they can and will change. This usually happens for 2 reasons:They assume that if they try hard enough, they’ll find a way to help their partner. And they

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November 18, 2020

Not all narcissists are the same. Some are blatant. They act in obvious ways. Some are more subtle. They hide their true purpose. Both are toxic. The obvious ones can be charming. They are outgoing and friendly much of the time. People usually like them at first meeting. But over time, their true nature shows. They become more demanding. The

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