January 3, 2021

In modern times, we tend to spend lots of time going fast. And we don’t spend so much time slowing down. But does that get us there faster? Here’s a martial arts story that talks about this: A young student shows up to study with a Martial Art Master. The student is eager to learn.

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December 30, 2020

It might surprise you to know that the most successful people have one thing in common. What is it? They fail… a lot. But they don’t fail for the sake of failing. They fail because they try a LOT of things. In other words, they experiment all the time. Michael Simmons, mental modeler extraordinaire, has

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December 23, 2020

Have you felt it? Fear is on the rise. And with it the symptoms of fear. These can include: Worry Anxiety Depression Overwhelm & shutting down Self-doubt Sleep problems Fatigue Drinking & drug use Other distractions (work, sex, gambling, etc.) Muscle tension Racing heart Foggy brain Pain In other words, it sucks. And it traps

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December 15, 2020

Control is a basic issue in life. It exists in the world and within ourselves. And it’s almost always present in relationships. This issue is especially important for Gentle Souls. They are more aware of it. And, because they want to be caring and kind, they often defer to others’ control. That doesn’t always go

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December 14, 2020

It’s all too easy for gentle souls to give away their power. Here’s the story of one of my clients who wrestled with this her whole life.

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